Sometimes people say, "He didn't show up, didn't he?" Shouldn't this be, "He didn't show up, did he?"
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Moonkhan writes:
Sometimes people say, "He didn't show up, didn't he?" Shouldn't this be, "He didn't show up, did he?"
The short answer is yes, exactly!
Here's an explanation:
A brief question added onto the end of statement, like "did he?" in your sentence above, is called a tag question. The purpose of a tag question is to ask for confirmation from the listener that the statement is correct.
If the statement has an auxiliary verb or modal, it is repeated in the tag question, as shown in these examples:
Tony and Emily are coming, aren't they?
You don't exercise every day, do you?
If the main statement does not have an auxiliary verb or modal, use do:
I always arrive on time, don't I?
As shown in the examples below, when the main statement is positive, the tag question should be negative, and when the statement is negative, the tag question should be positive:
The Noodle House is still your favorite restaurant, isn't it?
You don't have time for dessert, do you?
Since the statement in your original example above is negative ("He didn't show up"), the tag question should be positive: